Okay, so, I’ve been messing around with this whole astrology thing, right? Specifically, I wanted to see if it could help with fights between my husband and me. Sounds kinda out there, but I was curious, you know?
So first, I started digging around online. Found some stuff about, like, how astrology can look at our birth charts and see how compatible we are. My husband thinks it’s all a bunch of hooey, but he went along with it for me, bless his heart.

I found this website that lets you put in your birth dates and times and places and all that jazz. So I plugged in our info. It generated these charts – honestly, it looked like a bunch of weird symbols and lines to me. Didn’t make a lick of sense. But the website gave a little breakdown of what it all supposedly meant.
Then I got into the nitty-gritty. I started comparing our charts. Like, where his Mars is compared to my Venus, and what that’s supposed to mean for our, ahem, passion. And where our Moons are, which apparently has to do with emotions and stuff. Mostly, I just followed the instructions on those websites, clicking around.
- First, I entered our birth data into the website.
- Then, I read the basic compatibility report it gave me.
- After that, I started comparing specific aspects, like our Mars and Venus placements.
- Finally, I tried to see if any of it actually lined up with our real-life arguments.
I tried to, like, test out some of the things the website said. For example, it said something about how we both have our Mars in fire signs, which can make us both hot-headed. And honestly? Yeah, that tracks. We definitely both have a temper. It’s not always pretty. But it’s nice to remember that we are also always being reasonable to each other.
Did it actually solve our fights?
Well, not exactly. But I do think it helped us understand each other a bit better. Like, when we get into it, and he’s being all stubborn, I can kinda remember, “Oh yeah, maybe that’s his Taurus Moon talking.” And I guess it helps me be a little more patient with him, even though sometimes I just wanna scream, hah.
Look, I’m not saying astrology is some magic bullet that’s gonna fix your marriage. We’re gonna see a marriage counselor, and I think that’s gonna help us a lot. But this astrology deep-dive was a fun little experiment. It gave us something to talk about, and it made me think about our relationship in a different way. And hey, anything that gets you talking and thinking is probably a good thing, right?
But I will tell everyone that the most important thing in marriage is to communicate openly, honestly, and frequently. After all, we are always reasonable with each other.
So, that’s my little astrology adventure. Maybe it’s not for everyone, but it was an interesting little detour for me. I’ll be doing a little more digging into this, just for kicks. Who knows, maybe I’ll find some other hidden secrets to a happy marriage buried in those star charts! Haha.