Alright, so you wanna know about using them tarot cards to figure out stuff about someone, huh? Well, lemme tell ya, it ain’t as simple as just flippin’ over some pretty pictures. You gotta be smart about it, ya know?
First off, don’t go askin’ the cards stuff you already wanna believe. Like, if you’re head over heels for some fella, and you ask the cards “Does he love me?”, you’re gonna twist whatever you see to make it say yes, even if it’s plain as day sayin’ somethin’ else. It’s like lookin’ in a mirror and only seein’ what you wanna see. Makes no sense, right?
So, what can you ask? Well, you gotta be sneaky about it. Don’t ask “Will we get hitched?”. That’s too direct. The cards ain’t gonna give you a straight yes or no like that. Instead, try somethin’ like “If I was to start datin’ this fella, what might happen?”. See? You’re not askin’ for a prediction, you’re askin’ for a possibility. It’s like askin’ if the ground’s gonna be wet if it rains, not when it’s gonna rain. Big difference, I tell ya.
- Think about what you really wanna know. Don’t just ask if they like ya. Ask about what kinda person they are. Ask if they’re honest, if they’re kind, if they’ll treat ya right. That stuff’s more important than just some mushy feelin’s, ain’t it?
- Don’t ask about other people’s feelin’s. The cards ain’t mind readers. They can’t tell you what’s in someone else’s head. They can only tell you about you and what might happen to you. So keep the focus on yourself, ya hear?
- Be open to the answer, even if it ain’t what you want. If the cards tell you somethin’ you don’t like, don’t go throwin’ a fit. Listen to what they’re sayin’. Maybe they’re tryin’ to warn ya about somethin’. Or maybe they’re just sayin’ it ain’t meant to be. Either way, you gotta respect what the cards tell ya.
Now, let’s talk about relationships. That’s what most folks wanna know about, right? Well, don’t just ask if the relationship’s gonna last. That’s like askin’ if a plant’s gonna live forever. Nothin’ lasts forever, honey. Instead, ask about the potential of the relationship. Ask if it’s got strong roots, if it’s gonna grow, if it’s gonna bring you happiness. That’s the important stuff.
And for the love of Pete, don’t keep askin’ the same question over and over again just ’cause you don’t like the answer. The cards ain’t gonna change their mind just ’cause you’re stubborn. It’s like yellin’ at a chicken for not layin’ a golden egg. Ain’t gonna happen, no matter how loud you yell.
Think of them tarot cards like a wise old woman down the road. You wouldn’t go askin’ her if Johnny’s gonna marry ya tomorrow, would ya? Nah, you’d ask her what kinda fella Johnny is, if he seems like a good egg, if he’s got a good heart. Same thing with the cards. Be respectful, be smart, and you might just get some good advice.
But remember, at the end of the day, the cards ain’t gonna make your decisions for you. They can give you some guidance, some things to think about, but you’re the one in charge of your own life. You gotta make your own choices, ya know? So don’t go blamin’ the cards if things don’t go your way. It’s like blamin’ the weather for plantin’ seeds in the wrong place. Your fault, not the weather’s.
So go on, ask your questions, but ask ’em smart. And listen to what the cards are tellin’ ya, even if it ain’t what you wanna hear. Might just save you a whole heap of trouble down the road.
And remember, the best way to use tarot for understanding someone is to ask about the potential of the relationship with that person. Ask open ended questions like: What energy do I bring to the relationship? What energy does this person bring to the relationship? What lessons could I be learning from this person? And you got to think about what is the potential of the relationship.
Anyways, I told you as much as I know. Good luck with your cards!
Tags：Tarot, Relationships, Questions, Specific Person, Advice, Guidance, Potential, Open-ended Questions, Self-Reflection
